boring so learn to experiment in bed and
try something new all the time
There are good girls that guys want to introduce
to their mother.
And then there are bad girls that every guy
secretly desires and fantasizes about.
Now every guy knows bad girls are bad news.
After all, bad girls are unpredictable, frustrating
and fickle.
And they're not the best of partners for a long
term relationship either.
But, there's something about the allure of a bad
girl that makes every guy secretly admire her and
want her.
As a girl, have you ever felt insecure when a bad
girl takes a fancy to your boyfriend?
Your man may be all yours, but when a bad girls
talks to him or flirts with him, he can't help but
melt or get nervous around her. It's almost
involuntary!
Bad girls vs. good girls
Good girls are the best. As a guy, I can tell you
that life with them is like a soft pillow. It's full of
love, comfort, emotional security, happiness and
bliss.
But then again, bad girls are like a scary
rollercoaster. You don't want to live in them but
you sure as heck want a rough ride now and
then! [Read: How to make your boyfriend want
you more than ever]
A bad girl is every man's fantasy and his
nightmare too. A guy wouldn't want a bad girl, but
yet, he can't stop wishing he could have her. So
who wins in the eternal war between the good girl
and the bad girl? Well, no one can tell for sure. But
here's something about the regular human mind.
As humans, we always prefer stability and
simplicity over near death experiences *even
though the adrenalin junkie in us wants a near
death experience now and then!*
The good girl and bad girl in you
Contrary to the sitcom portrayal of bad girls as
slutty leather wearing bitchy women, and nice
girls as mauve sweater wearing cute girls, real life
isn't that easy to read. Every girl has a bit of both
in her, the good girl and the bad girl. But what
stands out more brands the girl as goody-two-
shoes or bitch-in-heels.
Sometimes, it's never bad to be a bad girl,
especially if you know what works for you. You
may be a good girl who's dating a great guy, but
wouldn't it be great if you can hone the desirable
traits of the bad girl that make her so awesome?
Think about it, good girls win a parent's heart, but
a bad girl wins a man's heart. If you could be both,
you'd definitely be the girl of every guy's dreams.
12 traits of a bad girl that make her so
awesome!
Bad girls aren't dimwitted or the kind of girl who
goes with the flow. She knows what she wants
and knows how to get it. So if you're a good girl
who wants to have a bad streak in her, use these
12 bad girl traits to awe a guy and drive him
crazy!
#1 The naughty bad girl. Bad girls aren't
prudish. They don't pretend to hate porn, or shy
away from a new sexual adventure. A guy's sex
life with a bad girl is never boring so learn to
experiment in bed and try something new all the
time.
#2 She's sexy. Appearances do matter, even if
you've been in love for ages. Dress up and look
good, whether you're at home or out on a date.
Thick sweaters and faded pants are comfortable,
but there are sexier looking outfits that feel
comfortable too, don't you think?
#3 She's adventurous. A bad girl doesn't hold
back and borders on reckless now and then. A bad
girl would be willing to try anything at least once.
Go out there and experience new things, see what
life has to offer and let your man know that you
love a good adventure every now and then.
#4 She's so flirty! Bad girls are little devils who
know how to flirt and seduce any guy without
making their intentions obvious. They're fun,
alluring and sexy talkers who can give a guy a
hard on without even touching him!
#5 She stands up for herself. A bad girl has
the confidence to stand up for what she believes
in. She's determined and motivated, and doesn't
let anything get in the way of achieving her goal
or dream. And she can do this without the help of
any man in her life!
#6 She is who she is. A bad girl doesn't feel the
need to conform to the rules of society. She's a
misfit of the good kind. Her friends may pretend
like they don't appreciate her life choices, but
somewhere deep within, everyone secretly wants
to be her or wants to be with a girl like her.
#7 She doesn't sugarcoat it. A good girl will
hold a guy's hand and tell them that everything is
going to be alright even if it was him that screwed
up in the first place. But a bad girl will show her
man the facts as it is, and help him understand
his own mistakes.
It's true, sugarcoating a problem helps ease the
pain now and then, but almost every time, a guy
would prefer a bullet in the head instead of five in
the chest. A bad girl says what's on her mind, and
unless he's feeling guilty and miserable already
or if it's a sensitive issue, a guy would appreciate
that trait in his girlfriend.
#8 She's high maintenance. Guys want a low
maintenance girl around the house. But they
always want a high maintenance girl when they're
walking down a street! High maintenance girls are
always awed and admired by guys, even if they
can't be afforded.
#9 Bad girls don't let themselves go. Most
nice women just let themselves go once they get
into a stable relationship or a marriage. They don't
dress up, don't shave where it matters, and they
start to overlook the Michelin Man curves that
start to grow on their body *because they have
better things to do*. But a bad girl knows the
secret behind attraction and seduction, looks
matter just as much as personality.
#10 They say NO. A guy could be infuriated by
this bad girl behavior when she puts her foot
down and take a stand when she doesn't want to
do something, but this trait will also make her be
taken more seriously. On the other hand, a warm
and nice girl who compromises all the time and
puts up with a guy for everything will only be
taken for granted or walked all over.
#11 She doesn't wait for magic. She creates
it. A bad girl doesn't wait for a prince charming to
walk into her life and fix her problems for her. She
steps into the middle of the real world and fixes
what she wants, with the assistance of drooling
men or by herself.
#12 She's extremely confident. She's not
cocky, but she's not the insecure one either. In
fact, she's the kind of girl who'll scare a guy and
make him try harder to impress her all the time.
Whatever she does, she's confident of her skills,
and everyone respects her for that.
5 bad girl traits guys don't want in their girl
Bad girls are great, but they aren't all nice and
sexy. Here are five signs that spell nothing but
doom for a guy. So if you want to be a good bad
girl, avoid these traits.
#1 Selfishness. Bad girls are usually extremely
selfish and don't care for anyone but themselves.
Don't be that girl.
#2 Using sex as a weapon. You're sexy and
you know it, but that shouldn't give you any right
to use sex as a weapon by withholding it just to
prove a point or get your man to bend over
backwards for you.
#3 Moody and fragile. As confident as bad girls
portray themselves to be, some of them also have
a very fragile soft center that could be a sign of
bottled emotions and confusions. Speak out and
communicate your feelings. You don't need to be
the strong girl all the time.
#4 Narcissist. A bad girl thinks she's the best
thing to happen to planet earth, and that she's
better than everyone else. Of course, she's
entitled to her opinion if she has something
worthy to prove herself. But try to keep your ego
in check, will you?
#5 Fickle. The typical bad girl gets excited for
everything quickly and loses her interest in other
things just as quickly.
As with every kind of girl, a bad girl too has her
own good and bad sides to her. As long as you
remember to use the good traits and avoid the
bad traits, you'd definitely be able to awe and
impress the man in your life, for a long time to
come.
Be a nice girl because she's the girl every guy
wants to take home to his mother. But make sure
you have these 12 bad girl traits in you too. After
all, when it comes to attraction between a man
and a woman, the bad girl has the sexy edge over
the good girl all the time.
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