QUIT BITCHING AND DO SOMETHING! !!!!

Quit Bitching and Keep Moving!! Its pretty typical for we ladies. We bitch about practically anything and everything. I constantly bitch about my girlfriends using my shampoo and or borrow clothes and don't return them.(don't blame me..they're vintage..). I bitch about my boyfriend who never picks up his damn phone when I call..c'mon its called MOBILE for a reason. (effing pick up). Oh! And I constantly bitch about the weather, the cafeteria food..(dnt bother asking why I dnt cook) …and every living soul that walks sluggishly next to me. (I cant stand it).

DOWN TO EARTH!!!

Ladies bitch about more serious stuff..like..
     
                     Your body
                     Your weight
                      A shitty job
                      Your relationship
                       A toxic friend
                     A negative living situation

Wake up will ya…we shouldn't be weighed or tied down by all this you know. You're in charge of your life and you dictate everything. All these should never be an issue for you. Lets discuss them shall we.

YOUR BODY- I know this sounds awfully cliché but you've got to be comfortable in your own skin. Don't hate yourself because you don't look like Beyonce, Miranda kerr or Amber Heard. Your just perfect the way you are. I'm just perfect the way I am. Say this to your self over and over again when your beating yourself up about your body. Btw what makes you think those stars would look anything close to the way they look if not for the dough or gazillion plastic surgeries. Instead of focusing and whining about your flaws, focus on you're greatest assets. (Mine are my eyes ).

YOUR WEIGHT – Get your ass off the couch and move!!! Run, swim, dance, walk, hike etc. Don't be a couch potato and expect to be tan and fit. Its not gonna happen. And if one more person tells me about drinking slimming tea..I'm gonna scream!!! That stuff is just totally absurd and ridiculous. Don't be lazy… go work for it.

A SHITTY JOB – Don't you feel stuck? Do your Boss make you want to crawl under the table and pull out your hair? Do you find your self throbbing with glee when its almost 4 or 5 so you can escape. If yes then your just living a miserable life and no one deserves that. Life's too short to slave away at some God awful job that's no good for you or your sanity. Seriously though! If there's one thing that scares me its being stuck in a job I completely hate. Look elsewhere for jobs! Update your CV on LinkedIn and connect with people, go out there and send your CVs out to companies.. and most of all, find other avenues to make cash. You can be a make up artist, a personal shopper, a stylist, a personal trainer, a chat line assistant..or better yet..a blogger like me. You'll be surprised how much you could end up making . but then again you've got to work hard .

YOUR RELATIONSHIP – Seriously though its not worth it. If you kill yourself over a boy, he would bring another bitch to your funeral. Know yourself worth. The main reason most girls bitch about their relationship is because they don't feel like they are appreciated and loved. Nobody deserves to feel that way. If someone loves you ..he'll show it,. Don't deceive yourself and say 'oh! He probably is just stressed with work or has other things going" Get yourself out, They are a million and one fishes in the sea. Don't continue to brood over one. My Goodness!!! It irks me when girls continue to cry over some boy. NO it disgusts me. If he can't get his acts together kick him to the curb. Someone better would come along. He's not worth it. Know yourself worth.

A TOXIC FRIEND – One again..Life.Is.Too.Short. Please detach yourself from any toxic friendship that's not adding any positive value to your life but bringing you down. You don't need any negativity in your life. There's just some much positive things to absorb in life to let any form of negative energy in. Say no to such. Not all friends want your happiness. You need to be very careful with whom you let to get close to you. Some people are just natural bad belle people and don't want anyone to progress or make it before them. Say No.

A NEGATIVE LIVING SITUATION – There was a time I was working with this director and he was just a sadist. He was supposed to be like a mentor, a teacher..someone who thought me a lot more about my profession..Acting. I was young, eager to learn and naïve and he was just monstrous. Always shouting with absolutely terrifying rage, insulting peoples personal lives, nagging, complaining and acting like even God has nothing on him. I became miserably and wanted to quit acting. I felt acting was something I loved and it should make me happy but working with him just made me miserable and I quit. He tried to get , me to change my mind but I wasn't having it again. I was going to quit working with him and grow in the field by myself. Moral lesson: Never dwell in a negative situation. If you're not happy where you are…MOVE!! You're not a tree. You deserve to have peace of mind and be happy. Seriously, never let anyone or anything bring you down and make you feel like you have miserable life. You deserve better..not to mention..God has impeccable plans for you.

This is a new week..it's a brand new opportunity. A chance to look forward not backwards..so quit bitching and make a change. Move On!!!